Episode 101: Meditation, Ghosts, Waxing
101. Meditation, Ghosts, and Waxing with Integrated Touch & Bodywork in Columbus, OH
Join us for an engaging and heartfelt conversation with Judith Allen. Judith shares her journey as a waxing professional and insurance agent while offering insights into her Filipino heritage, ghost stories, and spiritual practices. The hosts delve into topics like religion, meditation, and extraterrestrials while touching on Judith's experiences with the dating world and the challenges of maintaining a beauty business. This episode promises a mix of laughter, wisdom, and profound reflections on life and the afterlife.
TOPICS
01:29 Judith's Background and Life in the Philippines
02:53 Family and Humor
03:32 Beauty and Insurance
05:39 Judith's Unique Legal Status
07:32 Coping with Loss and Spiritual Beliefs
15:20 Judith's Dating Experiences
18:36 Meditation and Personal Growth
24:06 Beliefs About Aliens and Extraterrestrials
28:52 Astral Projection Experiences
30:27 Personal Religious Journey
40:38 Cosmetology and Aesthetic Services
41:57 Dealing with Misconceptions in the Beauty Industry
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TRANSCRIPT
It's like, I'm always trying every time I'm there, but it's, it's hard. She, she, she doesn't open up very much
because I'm not a Subway. I don't open up.
Welcome to the Naked Truth podcast. Dear listeners. We have a special guest today for you, Judith Allen. She's this amazing, small, tiny little lady full of life. And I'm just so excited about interviewing her today. She's normally Uh, interacting with me in a different way. I'm usually laying on a table and she's waxing me.
She's really good at it. And so she's seen me naked, so it's Naked Truth Podcast. So she, she, you know, she waxes my hoo-ha area. And, uh, she's great at it. So, Judith, I finally see eye to eye with you for the first time. Normally, you're, uh, Eye to eye with other parts of my body. So how does it feel today to be interviewed on this wonderful, most popular podcast in the United States of America?
I'm so excited.
And I think I like it. I know what to do, cause I know I'm so excited. Yeah. Well, thank you very much for having me today. It's a beautiful day. The sun is rising. So, Judith,
tell us a little more about yourself. Where do you originally come from? Tell us a little more. I'm from Philippines.
What's, like, something To remember Philippines by. Tell me some like, some real
Miss Universe! Every time they win a Miss Universe! And if they don't win, it's gonna be a what? Cooking! They pay up the judge. That's what they call them, Miss Universe. For 2022 or 2023, I think it's a cooking because supposedly Miss Philippines is the one supposed to be Miss Universe, but they pay the judge at Korea and says like, Hey, I pay for the Miss Universe and I own the Miss Universe.
So therefore, I want the one that's gonna win and I'm the one who dictate it. Oh!
Yeah, no, that's uh, what else do you know Philippines by other than Miss Universe and it sounds like a bunch of drama with Korea It's more fun
in
the Philippines More fun in the Philippines Yes, the Sun is shining every day and it's raining.
What's the what's like the biggest business? What's what's kind of like the biggest thing that people? Occupation wise so what are people doing everything or is there like a trade or something that people focus on? Tourism, I don't know I'm
not really sure right now. I've not been in the Philippines for the last 28 years, so I'm not really sure what is happening.
When, how old were you when you came to the U. S.? I came in here when I was 18 years old, and I got married when I was 20, and I got a baby like 20 years old. Oh, yeah. How many babies
you had? I had
two. Three babies and now they're grown adult. As of right now, my Pelopion tube is expired.
Judith, that's why I love you.
You're just hilarious. We always like, uh, crack jokes the whole time I'm there for like two hours every month or so. Two hours? It takes a whole body? Yeah, it's the whole body, you know. It's a live entertainment with no cover piece. It's a live entertainment. Yes. Exactly. So. Yeah, if you're a client, leave extra tip because Judith is a comedian on top of the other job that she does.
So we
do integrated touch and body work. We do all the waxing, facial and nails and, uh,
hair. How did you get into the beautifying business? Was it always something you were dreaming about or how did you get into it? Well, because my beauty
is not there, so I decided, I'm like, I need to get some beauty, man.
I always have this issue with my skin. And I always have these pimples all over me and I'm like, Freak! Am I not getting old? Because I keep being adolescent every time! And so I decided it's time to find out what it's all about, about skin care.
All right, and I'm just gonna tell you guys because, uh, Miss Universe over there, she's a very difficult woman to get to know.
She always keeps things funny and on the surface, and if you really try to get to know her, it's hard. It's like, I'm always trying every time I'm there, but it's hard. She doesn't open up very much.
Because I'm not a Subway. I don't open up.
Subway. I'm telling you guys.
Like the
sandwich? Yeah. You know it.
Yeah, so Judith is a complicated woman full of depth that it's it's like but getting to know her is really hard It's tell us tell us something more about yourself. Just like recently what happened recently Not only that I wax pussy
for a
living I also ensure those pussies to make sure that they are protected She's an insurance agent if you guys didn't pick up on that.
So she only she doesn't only wax pussy She also insures pussy. That's her motto. You got to have insurance.
They sent me a 500 bill for an ultrasound. Wow. That was, that sucked. My insurance didn't work.
Talk to Judith. She can, she can, uh,
insurance is just basically trying to protect you. But if you don't pay enough money, then there's no protection,
right?
Seems like it's all about money all the time. And Judith is also, okay, tell me, because I still try to understand this. You somehow. are not a part of the United States. I still try to understand it. You said there's a way to sign yourself out of the United States. I don't know what that means. Tell me more.
Uh, basically I'm a state national and I, uh, expatriate myself under the British colony because white house is, is covered by, uh, Um, Britain. So they are not under Europe. So if you are live in Washington, D. C., you are part of District of Columbia.
I think what you told me in the past is that that it means you don't pay federal taxes.
Yes, we have to sign up those documents so that we are exempted to file federal taxes. Interesting. And so that's another way. So make sure that you don't get, um, Ding by the IRS, and you have to remember, there is two of the, there's IRS and Internal Revenue Service. They're totally different agency from one because they mirror each other.
So we'll pretend that I'll, like we are the IRS and we are the Internal Revenue Services. When they send you a mess, when they send you a letter, one is IRS and one for Internal Revenue Services. That means they're just pretending this is. Me, identity theft, and one that's original internal revenue service that was adopted on that time.
So, even
when Judith is completely serious, I can never, I just don't, I don't know. When it's
joking versus the truth. I think she's
joking all the time. Like, I never know when she's joking, when she's not. Also, you're, like I said, you always kind of like push away any kind of serious stuff with a joke. I'm really sorry about your mom passing away.
Okay. That was two or three weeks ago. Well, it's been a month now. Okay. I wasn't here in town. Or six weeks. And I felt, like, when you told me that, that your mom passed away, I actually just cried because it was like, wow, just, I just, I feel like we hung out with your mom, went to the New Year's party. We danced with my mom and your mom and you, and we were at, uh, the casino and it was so much fun.
And then we, we went out with your mom other times too. And, and I don't know, your mom is just so funny, and She's full of life! She's full of life, and to find out that she just kind of like, went to the other side now, I'm like, Damn it! You know? How are you coping with it? Because I, uh, I put my coat. Yes.
See, there she is with her joking.
She will never tell you anything serious. Make sure I'm warm. Yes. And I'm loved.
Yes.
So, well, I do it day by day, and sometimes I'm miserable, but What else can I do?
Nothing.
There's nothing I can do, but at least she's not in pain, and she's having a good life, and she's now out there and enjoying her new journey in life.
Yes, I agree with you. And we talked about, so there's lots of people writing books about this, and they say that we never really die, and that the spirits hang out with us, help us, communicate with us. I was just wondering, was Was there any kind of communication that you noticed from your mom?
Of course I communicate with her almost every day.
I think today is the only time I didn't communicate with her because I was busy and I'm on my way over here and so yeah, I can talk to her and I can hear what she has to say and just like, hey, have a good life. You know, and I can still feel her around the house when she moves, or maybe they call it illusion.
They said, but I'm like, no, my mom is still here. I asked her if she can cook for me. It's just like, no, I don't really have that body right now, but I'll be there to guide you. So everywhere I go, she was there, you know, I can talk to her. It's like, mom, what are we supposed to do today? Oh, by the way, I'm going to the party.
What am I supposed to wear? And then she'll show me what I needed to wear.
Do you see her or she kind of just tells you over this way or this outfit? How does it work?
Well, in a normal day when she's still here, she will prepare me three outfit with accessories. So let's say I'm going to the party. She'll prepare me three outfit.
If it's one red, one. I don't know, one black and one pink or something like that. I will have to try them on, including the shoes and everything else. And she will match and mix and match each and every one of them. And so, obviously, the other day I supposed to be going to the party and I says, Mom, I don't have nothing to wear.
What am I supposed to wear? And guess what? She showed me what I needed to wear. I was like, here's what you have to wear so you don't look like nobody cares about you. Oh, thank you, mama. I will wear this one. And so it's a little bit kind of like fashion.
So your mom inspires you like even though she passed away, you feel like she's still pointing to the clothing that you need to wear?
Like how is she showing it to you?
Well, in a normal day, I like. Today, I have no clothes to see. This is me. I just put my coat on and, like, here it is. That's it. But in a normal day, if I have to wear, it's like, Mom, I'm going somewhere tomorrow. What am I supposed to wear? And then I will fall asleep, and then all of a sudden, it comes out in your mind, it's like, this is what you need to wear.
Okay, that's what I need to wear. I see. Very
good. Very nice. Yeah. And you mentioned before that you have a lot of ghost stories.
Yeah, in uh, in the Philippines, we believe in ghosts because growing up, uh, the Philippines is kind of like, um, tropical and they believe in, Vampire and Uh, what? Vampire, the one that sucks blood.
Oh. Like that. Vampire. Okay,
very cool. That's what I said. Sorry, I heard bonfire, and I was like, bonfire? Like people are sitting and telling stories around bonfire. Yeah, they were sitting on the fire and watching, and then all of a sudden this creature
comes out and bites you in the
neck. Yeah, my dad, my dad protects himself with garlic from the vampires.
That's right.
See, my mama get garlic all the time. So that's why, but then growing up, I know my, uh, sister have experience with it that she was walking and somebody's walking like across from her that is a white lady, so she never go out at night after that.
So you guys are afraid of white ladies? Because there is white lady, because that's the ghost!
That's the name of the ghost, or it's just, uh Or just like somebody that didn't tan very well. No, this
is really a white lady clothes, just just like walking beside you. Yeah, it's a see through, but there's nobody there. You know, you can see it in the glance of your eyes. And just like, um, you know, my mom's going to get this, um, celebration of life.
And so I'm picking up pictures and all this kind of good stuff. And I have to buy, uh, And sometimes I have this issue that I don't like to spend that much money, you know. And I'm like, I just needed the cheapest one. And I went to Hobby Lobby, Michael's, Jo Ann Fabrics, and I just want to pick the like, the old kind of.
picture frame to put her pictures. Guess what? She's, and then she was in right on the side of my corner of my, uh, peripheral vision. And I'm like, Oh, okay. Because I'm going to pick up the ugliest one like this time. You know, she was testing her
mom. She was trying to make her mom mad. She had to, your mom had to come back from the other side to tell you like, don't you dare taking that out.
Nope. Nope. Nope. You gotta do the one that's in trans. Yeah, the one that in trends right now is you can see through, you know, like, uh, translucent. So, I have to end up buying all the translucent picture frame. That looks good with her pictures. I'm like, okay, here we go. She don't want anything cheap, she wants something In the fashion and so I'm like that's why I
bought the damn thing.
Well, she sounds like a fashionable woman. I mean she always takes care of your fashion so. Yeah,
so that's why. So yeah, I can see her sometimes and I can talk to her and sometimes, um, she appears in my dreams.
She tell you anything like Judith stop being so joking around all the time. Well, she said just be
happy and don't be sad anymore.
It's okay. That's what she says. Yeah, it's good There's no reason to be sad. She is now in a better place than she was before
Oh, you look at you being so serious now, that was nice. So you're an entrepreneur In columbus, ohio. Have you um, you moved to columbus when you were you said in your 18? You And you've always lived here.
Did you live anywhere else in the U. S.? So sometimes we talk with Judith about dating, you know, um, and it's always so funny to hear her take on it. I remember this story you told me, uh, one time you're like, Yeah, I go out on this date and we talk for two hours and if the guy calls me the next day, then, uh, then I'm like, why are you calling me?
I just talked to you for two hours. And then if he doesn't call me, then I'm like, what the hell? What did I do wrong? Why isn't he calling me? It's like, you can't win. Well, if they call you, you don't like it. If they don't call you, you don't like it. Right?
Well, welcome to Ohio. The guys over here are very, very, uh, I think, inpatient.
That's what they call you. What is it? Impatient. Yeah, that's why this is like, remember you go out for a date after three date and they didn't get anything from you, you know, they will trick you for food and they think that in exchange of the food you got pussy.
Like prostitution. It's a
date. Okay, I have a very, very logical question now.
How many dates should it be for the pussy to be on the table?
I don't know. In the Philippines, there's like somebody has to like do all the cooking and do the building and you have to go to your, to the parents and say, Hey, I'm willing to get your daughter and I'll take care of her for the rest of her life.
If I can have a blessing from you, but here it's like, no, I just meet you and I want your pussy and I'll take it to eat and I hope you give it away. And you're like, I wax pussy, but I don't give away pussy. That's right.
That's right. So it's a lot more work, it sounds like, in the Philippines.
Well, maybe not anymore, not this time of the year now, but growing up, that's the way it works.
But here, obviously, when I came over here, and then all of a sudden, What? You go out and you get something to drink, and you give away your what? Treasure! Oh my gosh! Really? All it took was one meal, and it was McDonald's? That's right, and it was McDonald's, and it's a pre pussy all of a sudden. Like, whoa!
And it's even waxed! You know how much it cost to wax that thing? That's right, so I'm like, no way. Some chicken nuggets, and you give away your
puss? Your treasure? Man, that is something else. Right. So, uh, so you still dating, or you kind of decided you gave up on the American man? I don't know, when
time comes and it, it appears in front of me, and it says, What would it appear in front of you?
Oh! Mr. Cupido, you know, with the heart and the valentines, uh, cupid, and it hits you on the heart, and maybe that's what it is, and I says, oh, I love it so much, oh, I love it so much.
We just started singing band with Judith. That's what it's gonna be when that comes, and then, and I can't say no anymore, and it means I'm in love. Have you
ever been in love like that? Where you felt that the Cupido kind of struck your heart. Not
quite for quite some time, but I know I love myself, you know, so if I cannot love myself, how can I share love if I don't know how to love?
So I heard you're also trying to connect with your subconscious mind. You're taking a training or a class or something like that.
Yeah, I'm taking it online. And so because of my mama passed away, so I went to this Zoom seminar or something. It's unveiling. So this, most of the people that talks about it is like People that pass away and have a second life or in the middle of, um, death and then they come back to life.
Your deaf experiences? Yeah, and so that's what I'm learning and then some of them can really speak to the dead and they can have the channeling. So, okay, I'm not in the channeling things, but when they describe it to me, I guess I have been doing it since 2015 when I got my accident, uh, car accident. What happened?
One time I was just waking up and I'm doing my meditation and then all of a sudden I write everything I could possibly write without even thinking. And it will just go on. And so they call it automatic writing, automatic writing. And I have, I used to do that for quite some times, but I decided I don't need it to do that anymore, which I start maybe before COVID.
And so now I'm like, Oh, that's what they're doing now. So I'm like, okay, that's fine. So now I'm going back in there again. And I'm like, wow, it's hard to come back where it was. But I normally would do the, um, meditation every morning. At least if, if I cannot do anything, at least minimum of five minutes, but any other time I set aside an hour.
Or 40 minutes to an hour on my meditation. How do you do your meditation? Because, um, Um,
Okay, no, seriously, come on. Tell me, tell me the process, what you're doing.
I just, uh,
sitting down.
I mean, just,
I'm just
sitting down and, and then I close my eyes and then I listen to, uh, the, uh, Dwayne Dyer's, um, meditation, um, recording a YouTube for 40 minutes and says like, I'm with God, I'm of God, I'm one with God.
So that's how I do it. And then obviously I also did, uh, Espinoza. Yes. Oh, I think I know who you're talking about. Espinoza, Espina, Joseph Espana. Something like that. So you usually, usually listen to like a guided meditation. I have a guided meditation. I have just music and I just have be quiet. Or like not listening to anything for five to ten minutes.
Is it Joe
Dispenza?
There you go, Joe Dispenza. Yeah. And then another girl. So there's another girl that I'm listening for eight hours while I'm asleep. So connecting with your higher self. So I've been doing it for two, three days now. Are you connecting to your higher self? Well, as you can see, I'm in good spirit right now.
You are. I'm not sad, I'm not depressed, even though something have traumatized my life for the last how many years. But I see the world still positive and I look forward for all the good things that I can do. What's traumatizing you for the last
few
years? Will my mom pass? Okay. And then obviously the court system and stuff like that.
And my ex, um, death and all this issue that he put me through. And then his ex girlfriend that's trying to take me also. I'm like, uh, no, but it's just one of those. So the legal system. hmm. Mm hmm. But other than that, life is good. And you know, I can only take one day at a time. And so from that point on, I just shrugged my shoulder and I say, you know what?
They don't control my life. I control mine and I can run it however I want.
Man,
some.
Could you talk more about at night when you listen to things? Is that does it have suggestions in it? Or how does that work? Yeah, I have
a guided record, guided, uh, meditation also. I also have the app on the awakening, um, awakening.
And so I have those also. And I also listen to crying. It's an old guy that do the channeling. And he will speak what's happening today and cry on spirit comes in and and he was just gonna talk about it So you can look at it that the YouTube also and also that I have several NDAs with next level soul that I listen to and some of them are like live interview that has the NDA or sometimes the medium people that's like how did you get it?
And then all of a sudden there's some traumatizing event that happened to their life and then all of a sudden they can speak to the other side. And so I also have those and I also listen to You know, like, uh, Dr. Green, Dr. Green, which is extraterrestrial
kind of thing. I was gonna ask. Yeah. Because it sounds like it's in the same area.
Yeah. How do you feel about aliens?
Well, it's supposed to be good. It's supposed to be real because he has all the, um, uh, scientific that he studied that he used to work for the government and he knows that there is. And, and then they go out in the Arizona in the middle of the, uh, uh, Oh, and they meditate and call them, right?
Oh, I watched the,
uh,
film on Amazon Prime. Yep, they do that. And also they go to the Northern Lights and watch it and they meditate and they call the spirits and everything else. Or they call the aliens and then they will respond. And I have the, the apps that's like, if you want to do it, you can connect.
I have it too. Oh, okay. So I have. You guys are
connected over there. I
never did it. I just, I was so curious after watching the film and I was like, I want to do this with someone. And then I never found someone to do it with. That's right. But
you have to remember. Judith, right there. Every time, like, you know, when they show you the movie, like, E.
T. go home, and then the Matrix, and I'm like, and then some of the, the, the story that they put together, and I'm like, it can't be that this is not true, because it cannot be an illusion.
Where did it come from? Right. Someone had this idea, was inspired by someone, and we've had a lot of authors on, and, and The ones that write fiction, they say it's all based on actual things from, everyone pulls things from their lives.
Some
of them are true, but then some of them don't believe it because they haven't experienced it. And if you have not experienced it, but the thing is, you would know it because in the middle of nowhere, or if you're by yourself in one room or somewhere, you would know it because you get goosebumps.
Goosebumps.
Well, and, you know, I also think it would be really kind of silly of us to think that we're the only, the only intelligent species in the whole universe, and the universe is, has no limits as far as we know. Mm hmm. So, Why would we assume that we're the only
because we're not the only one right the fish has lived under the sea the bird lives on on the Sky or something and they can fly so you can't say you were the only living things in here
I mean, it's possible that they are not on the same frequency or they're probably higher.
Maybe there's higher and lower. What I
mean is like, maybe, maybe it's all on different, uh, like wavelengths, right? So maybe it's not, we can't see the aliens because they're not physical like us. Maybe they are in a different state or dimension, right? I mean, it's
like, I just watched the Spider Man yesterday or last night and I'm like, okay, remember the, uh, the one that they put the, um, The venoms and just like they just change and you have seen also though the one that uh, with the graphing oxide graphing Which one is that the the one that turns black?
Oh, uh, I know what you're talking about. I can't think of it. Um,
Isn't his name venom? Venom. Yeah. So that's why I'm like, okay, you know, there's something there. They didn't create, you know, make a movie for no reason. They're telling users like, Hey, watch out people. This is happening. Wake
up. You know, the government with the vaccines, uh, apparently that, that was the venom that was supposed to give us the extra strength, you know?
So I'm still waiting for my spider senses. Yeah, so
that's another reason why. And then obviously I do a lot of, uh, uh, audio books. So if I'm not doing anything, I'm listening to the audio books and stuff like that. And, um, Oh, I was going
to say, what kind of audio books do you like? I'm writing down your resources because these are really cool meditations and people to look up.
Well, it's all in my phone. Cryon is K R Y O N is a book and he's channeling. It's like 70 years old, went to the surgery and everything. So that's a good thing.
I really liked, if you, if you ever get to read this one, Unfinished Business. By James Von Praugh. I can't say it. P R A A G H.
So I have this Ancestor Within that I listen to.
What is it? Ancestor Within. Okay. Ancestor Within. And then I have the, uh, Supercharged Self Healing. Mmm. I have those, and a complete book. Peaceful warrior way. And then I have that train your brain to learn astral projection. So that's what I'm listening to for the last three days.
With the astral projection, have you ever been successful?
Well, uh, 2018, I was doing the meditation on that time. And it's a guided meditation on face uh, YouTube. And, you know, I listened to it and then all of a sudden I was out and Going through that motion, and um, I went over, I left the building, and then show me everything, and I have spoken to see all the, uh, my relatives on the other side, which has already been passed away, and then, obviously, I don't live in the Philippines anymore, but then, on that day, meditated or guided meditation, I see all the property that they want to show me.
In 2019, I went back to the Philippines, all the property that they showed me on that guided meditation, I was able to go to the Philippines. On each and every one of them when I went back to the Philippines and claim all that property.
Interesting. So you, you, you had one astral projection experience where you, uh, left your body.
Mm hmm. Nice. And I
walked. But if I want to do it again, obviously, on that time, I was scared. I'm like, huh? I grew up Catholic, but I've been all over, like Like the typical Catholic. Lanyards, Protestant, born again, and all those kind of good stuff. What did you
settle for, finally?
I didn't settle for anything.
Are you still kind of right now, I'm in between because of everything that I'm learning right now that every one of them is, is created by a man. Every religion? Yeah.
Is created by a man. And you're an independent woman, so you kind of want to find a religion created by a woman?
No, not necessarily, but I believe that there is a higher self.
There's somebody that's higher than us. created every one of us, but I know that I know that if anything that's already been there and I do not have to, to investigate about it, just like if there's, if there's an earth and it's on the, on the, uh, solar system and they're hanging over there and the moon is on the sky.
That one for me is I do not have to learn it because for me to do that, that means I'm going to, yeah. Make myself crazy. So I just have to say that whoever created that one, the moon, the sun and the sky and the water on the ocean, if I cannot fathom them, then why do I have to? It's already I can see it.
So I shouldn't believe it. If I cannot control the flow of the water, why would I try to control? If I can just let it go and believe it, just like the wind that hit my face every time I go out, why would I have to experiment that one when I know it's a real thing? Just like when we watch about the ghost or we talk about the spirit, the wind up hits our face.
Do we have to learn about it and say, Oh, I don't believe you, but I can feel it. The same thing with those spirit that you say, well, I felt it, but you don't want to believe it. That's fine. It's on you, it's not on me. I know what I believe in, but I'm not gonna torture myself to learn all about it, if it's already been there.
So your ideal religion is to, uh, that you subscribe to, is one where, um, you don't have to learn about it too much?
No, but what I'm trying to say is, I searched my heart, and when I listen to those people, and they're trying to tell me what I needed to learn, and I say, no, whatever I believe in my heart is what I need.
I will go for, it's how I feel, it's not what you tell me now.
So you're trying not to go with, uh, maybe religions that are trying to brainwash you or tell you like, you have to do this, you have to do this, you're trying not to be a part of a sect, not a part of some type of a cult. You're trying to continue.
Sort of check all the information you're getting from the church leaders. Check it against your heart and see if this is good information. If you feel intuitively that it is, you go along with it. If you feel like, nope, this doesn't ring true. You're not going to be a part of that. So let's
say when you read a book and it's just like, that doesn't, that doesn't make sense.
And then somebody else say, this is what it is, you know? Okay. Let's just pretend a car. Okay. You have a Tesla. He's got four wheels and a wheel. It takes you wherever you want to go from part A to part B. I have a Ford. It's got four wheels. I got, I take it also take me from part A and B, right? But they're both cars.
And but they say, Oh, Tesla is better than Ford. Okay. Why? Because it's more expensive or because that's your preference, right? But they're both going to take us from A to B. Okay. So because Tesla was created by Elon Musk and Ford was created by Ford. And Ford is dead now. How can you put them both in the same position?
This is like, I'm better than you and I'm better than that. No, it's what I believe is both cars run, but what is true? Am I realistic or I'm just illusion?
So if you want to buy a Tesla, you would be a little delusional because it's too expensive. too expensive and it's not practical. Okay. So you're saying, so religions, you're comparing them to cars and you're saying each religion, um, you have to sort of kind of check it with your own heart.
What makes sense for you? Which one is more practical? So you're saying there could be the best religion out there, but if it's very impractical and expensive, then you're like, nope, I'm going to go with how
you believe it. Okay. So let's just, let's say, I grew up Catholic, and I went to vineyards, and I went to, uh, Calvary, and I also went to, um, Discover.
Okay, they all both teach the same way, okay? It's just like, Jesus, um, there is, there is a Holy Spirit and everything, but it's just some of the teaching. It's opinionated. So, it's what I can take. It's just like, you give me something and if I don't, if it doesn't ring true, then I would have to believe what's ring true to me.
It's not here anymore. It's not in your brain, it's in
your heart. Because,
because, I listen to my heart now, then I will listen to the brain, because my brain will create
State of confusion. State of confusion, because somebody say this one, somebody says this. Judah is, uh, uh, Buddha is better than Jesus. Jesus is Buddha than, than, uh Hindu or something like that. So I'm like, okay, but they're all believe in one. Yeah. Okay. But I'm like, okay, just like the same with car. They're all run at the same way.
But it take you from part A to part B, right? So I'm thinking, okay, what do I believe in? It's what's ring through to you. It's, it's what's in my heart that's gonna click and make sense the way it was. You know, like I'm watching my mama, when she was dying, and says that the brain is already dead, but the heart is still keep on ticking.
Okay? So that means heart is the most important part of our body, it's not the brain. Because when the brain die, the heart is still gonna keep on beating. And that's when I was looking out at them like, wow. Can you imagine? The brain doesn't work anymore, but the heart is still pumping. So that means it's all about love.
Oh, it's all about love. I just got chills. That must be true. What is the most common religion in the Philippines?
Catholic. Okay. I think about 75 percent that lives in Philippines are Catholic and then some of them are Muslims. But obviously here, I grew up, you know, after having all the kids and living in America, it's not the same tradition anymore.
And so you have to see and search for yourself, which one is. The one that's gonna take you, just like right now, you can't tell me I'm Catholic, you can't tell me I'm, I'm from vineyards, you can't tell me I'm from Discover, you can't tell me I'm from Quest. Because I went to see all those. And obviously I went to, to see the Muslim church also.
And I'm like, okay, well, they believe in Allah. They believe in Jesus. They believe in Buddha. They believe in this one. Then when boys come to it, uh, you read all the books and it's the same story. They changed the name. Agreed. They just changed the name, so now I'm like, okay, well you know what? I'm gonna pray to, I want to pray, and I'm just gonna call him, God, yeah, God, yeah.
We're all living things and we should respect each other. We are all one. Just like we are all one, just like Dwayne Dyer said, I listened to, I heard all, uh, On the audiobooks all his books basically and that's when I first started doing my meditation when I discover about him Obviously he is passed away now and it's the world is not all about money and It's what you like to do It's it's what the desire of your heart is not what the desire of the mind It's the desire of your heart and america was trained the desire of The mind, soul is not there, because if you look at it, everybody that's rich.
They're not happy. They might be happy because they can do anything and everything they wanted to do, but deep in their heart, they're looking for something else. That's the reason why they drink, they use alcohol, they use drugs, because it doesn't make them complete. They keep looking for something that cannot be found, because they don't know who they are, or What's inside them?
What makes them be the real person that they are to be?
I think, you know, in a way, you know, when I think about this stuff, I always think that we're all looking for God. You know, we're all searching our whole life, and we're searching under, like you said, there's different names, different religions.
Different places, different people, but it's like we're searching for material things, right? Especially when we're younger or love or this or that and the other. But when you finally sit down and think about it, the missing that you feel, I think it's always for God.
That's right. Because we look for something else outside ourselves.
To complete us, right? It is really is inside us. Yeah, it's not really out there somewhere.
It's not really in the bank. Well, thank you for reminding me all of that. So, Judith, uh, how would someone find you? So, if they're a woman or a man, do you see both for your business? Do you, uh, Do you provide cosmetology, aesthetic services for males and females or just females or how does that work?
Everybody that needs service, we can do it for you. Except if you're under 18, you must bring your parents with you because I won't touch you. Okay? Because I don't really want to go to jail for you. So that's, that way, if you decided that you needed all the service, waxing, facial, massage or something, just make sure you're over 18.
After that one, then that will be good thing. I don't have to ask you for all this consent from your parents and everything, that I'm allowed to touch you. And yes, You cannot bring your credit card, your mama's credit card, and think that's, that's a, uh, correct authorization or consent that I'm allowed to, to do anything for you.
No. Credit card doesn't say that.
Okay, so what services do you do? Just list them for us so people know how to, uh, what you do.
We do waxing, we do facial, we do nails, we do pedicure, we do massage, and um, And sell insurance. And sell insurance. Yes. That's perfect.
IntegratedTatsAndBodyWork. com. In the past, you'd event to me and she will say like, uh, some dudes sometimes call you and because there's this, this, this belief that Asian places sometimes provide happy ending massages, people call you and ask you about it.
So I was going to ask like, maybe you want to share some of these stories or what not to say when you're a guy calling you for service.
We do not provide happy ending. We provide smiling and happy spirit. Other than that, we don't provide happy ending in the other terms that you think that's what we do.
It's not because I'm Asian, I do that. I do not want to go to jail for that. And if that's the case, and if that's what you're looking for, you go somewhere else. Because I did not go to school and learn all this, um, um, Professional touch. Professional. That. Magical touch. That I will have to do with and lower myself for that one.
So if that's what you need. So it's
happy spirits, not happy ending.
Yes, we are going to be like, by the time you get out of my place, you'll be like happy and you, you will experience life and it's a beautiful experience because it's gladness in your heart is going to come out instead of gladness somewhere else.
Yeah.
Yes.
Because you would know that's not what we provide.
So when guys call for, like, when they think, obviously, you know, by error that you provide a happy ending massage, what kind of wording do they use? How do you weed them out and know not to bring them in as clients?
When they have all these questions just like, Am I supposed to get an erection?
Uh, is there anybody else there that can do the massage? So therefore, if that's the case, that's the question that's like you hang up with because they're looking for something that that's not what I do. So I just hang up and I says, I don't need to entertain all those questions because that's not what I do for a living.
Okay. And then sometimes, you know, we get crazy and, but the thing is, The good thing about it is when you open that door, you can feel the vibes of those people if they are, their intention is right, or their intention is to harm you. So as soon as you feel it, you let them know that you try it, I promise you, you'll get it.
The tweezer is going to go somewhere else. You're not expecting because I'm holding it.
Okay. I would just, just for the record, if you consider using Judith services, just, I would not mess with her.
She's, she's, you have to remember when you're laying down and you don't have no, no underwear. You know, who can run faster?
So I power you, you think of what you have to do first before you mess with me, because you have to remember when I'm working, I'm fully clothed. So, if I run, I'm gonna have my clothes, but you don't have no underwear, so you're gonna be like, jingling, jingling, jingling, jingling. How can you run when you have a jingling?
And the cold. If you live in my neighborhood, some people still try to run naked. In this weather? Well. Depends. I mean, sometimes they are so like on substances that they don't feel the cold. So there was a really funny story one time I went to be a counselor at a robbery in a bank and the story was the guy that robbed the bank to disguise himself took his clothes off and was running naked because he didn't want to be associated with the clothes that he was wearing Well, Judith, you are us always a blast.
Thank you very much. Thank you for being this wonderful entrepreneur out there and providing all these beautiful services to all of us. And thank you for being courageous and providing services even though sometimes people call and ask to provide other kinds of services and you're still out there doing it.
You know, thank you for that. We
just have to fight the fight and we have to be courageous and face our fears because if we don't do it, then we get paralyzed. We can't do anything. We can't make money.
I
can't
face the world. That's why I see judith because she uh gives me the courage, you know So what is your naked truth?
Because that's the last thing we do on this podcast We share a quote or wisdom or something that or a joke or something that you Find interesting and you just story anything. Yeah Naked
truth is we really are naked and the truth will come out and we will find out We just, we have to be true to ourselves.
Mmm.
I like it. That's the naked truth. I like it. I like it.
Sophie? I'd like to go off of what we talk about. Um, I guess my naked truth is to stay curious and open, and I never want to close off to the possibility of anything, like, I'm thinking aliens, you know, ghosts. Even last night I had an experience where I was closing the bedroom door because I was My cat will open it sometimes, so I was like, I was closing it, and as I looked out, I saw like a little white thing just go by really quickly, and I was like, I'm going to go back in bed and hide under the blanket.
I was, I was scared. But, I don't know, around this time of year, things get kind of like, A little spooky. But I like to remain open, but, you know, also aware that I need to protect myself at the same time. And
yeah.
That's
perfect. You know, and on that token, I, uh, I remember just what, uh, what Judith said too about meditation and recently, you know, cause I was trying to meditate and for some reason in the last few months, I just couldn't do it very well.
Um, So, just like over the weekend, I was thinking to myself, Gee, I could listen to a guided meditation and just, I wouldn't, I don't have to like, try to keep my brain empty. I don't have to do anything specific. I can just listen to it and I can just try to follow what they're saying on the, on the guided meditation.
And I was like, wow, what a revelation. You
haven't been doing guided? No, I've never done
guided. I've always just like, I put my earplugs in, and I close my eyes and I try to focus on love. And that, that worked for, for years and now I'm like, I don't, I don't know, it just doesn't, my mind gets, I don't know, distracted or something.
So I should have just talked to you, Judith. My naked truth is I should have talked to you about meditation because it sounds like you've guided meditation for years, right?
I wrote some down, so I'll send it to you, what you mentioned. perfect.
So I don't know. I, uh, will try to schedule more of these, and I hope that together, us people will continue meditating, praying, uh, and rising our vibration to just, just Be better.
I mean, we need love in this world. Every day is better.
You get better every day. Thank you very much for having me today. Thank you! And have a good night! And then we just kind
of laugh like this. Just keep doing it like, Ha ha ha ha ha ha! Ha ha
ha ha ha! No way! That is so bad! Oh
no!
